Status Anxiety

Status Anxiety



The Pequod Review:

With Status Anxiety, his seventh full-length book, Alain de Botton explores how a significant amount of our self-worth is based on comparative and externally-defined measures:

Every adult life could be said to be defined by two great love stories. The first -- the story of our quest for sexual love -- is well known and well charted, its vagaries form the staple of music and literature, it is socially accepted and celebrated. The second -- the story of our quest for love from the world -- is a more secret and shameful tale. If mentioned, it tends to be in caustic, mocking terms, as something of interest chiefly to envious or deficient souls, or else the drive for status is interpreted in an economic sense alone. And yet this second love story is no less intense than the first, it is no less complicated, important or universal, and its setbacks are no less painful. There is heartbreak here too.

The discussion that follows is often vague and meandering, and he has trouble getting his arms around such a broad subject. But de Botton remains an engaging stylist.